The future is built moment by moment, upon the smallest of steps we take together. All we really have is right now, so when we give it our full and open hearted attention, hope grows and wonderful things can happen.
Travel well in 2023. When worries about the future cloud our minds, it’s very hard to hold onto hope and to live in the moment. But really all we have is right now, & the best we can do is take one step at a time, with kindness.
Care experienced young people should be wrapped in all the love & connection they deserve, for as long as they need, to become everything they want to be. Healing happens in caring relationships.
It’s National Adoption Week & the focus is on the importance of identity & relationships for adopted people. Connections matter. Life stories matter. May everyone’s adoption story be honoured & met with acceptance & empathy.
This National Adoption Week, we’re sending Moffle love to everyone whose life is touched by adoption. We celebrate the happiness brought to so many adoptive families, shout for better support for those living with relational trauma, and feel sadness for birth families who have experienced separation & loss.
As adults in the lives of an adopted child – parents, relatives, therapists, social workers & other professionals – we have a responsibility to help them understand their life story & support their sense of identity as it grows & develops. Answer their questions, honour their feelings & walk alongside them. As a community, give them a safe base where they can connect, reflect & continue to grow.
Today the Moffles are supporting @YoungMindsUK and saying #HelloYellow for World Mental Health Day. Because our children’s and young people’s mental health matters.
The theme of 2022’s World Mental Health Day, set by the World Federation for Mental Health, is ‘Make mental health and wellbeing for all a global priority’.
Let’s remember we all share a common humanity and a responsibility for creating communities where everyone knows that both their mental & physical health is valued, and that they matter. Good health and healing happen in caring relationships and societies.
Kinship families in the UK are raising over 200,000 children. They do this with love & commitment & determination to keep children in their family networks & communities. For many children, kinship care is the right choice & they thrive.
But kinship carers can face challenges. Too often arrangements are not properly recognised or funded. The responsibility is life changing & many carers take it on at personal cost to their own plans, finances, relationships, & health. Their children may have complex emotional & behavioural needs from difficult life experiences & accessing specialist support can be hard.click here to read more
When a child has experienced relational trauma, they can feel surrounded by many frightening ghosts. Processing painful experiences and moving on from the past can take a lot of time and support.
Have patience to help them explore their fear and sadness – build their emotional resources and trust in your relationship. Nurture confidence that they can find comfort with you, have adventures, and find joy in the world. Leave the haunted house and build a castle to live in together, full of light, opportunity, and hope.
Healing requires that you be a gentle gardener of your soul. Nurture it with the sunshine of empathy, and water it with curiosity. Dig carefully for self-understanding. Tend to your roots and be sure to plant yourself in a place that gives you sustenance and shelter. Be open to the kindness of yourself and others and let this help you to grow strong.